Being a good father and husband
Sep 16, 2023
Being a good father and husband isn't about the monumental but the ordinary.
If we think of it with the Pareto Principle:
- The Monumental - 20% of life that takes 80% of the effort
- The Ordinary - 80% of life that takes 20% of the effort
Sometimes this can feel flipped around where "The Ordinary" takes up 80% of our effort.
What I see in my life is that I obsess too much over "getting it right", burning my energy on things that don't need it.